I don't mind, thanks for the POV. The issue there is that I'm not sure if she's reserved and would rather keep in control or if she has a really low sense of self-worth and "doesn't want to be a bother". I lean more toward the latter, but obviously I'm too close to see her clearly. I just don't know who else to ask for an informed opinion.

it wasn't the best time anyway, she had a half-hour to eat lunch and then she had to be back to work. really not an ideal time to come undone. Will see how it goes.