I must admit, I'm kind weird about the whole Order Of The Names thing. Sometimes, it's useful. There are some characters that I like to read taking it from certain characters and I don't like it the other way around. But that's only for flat out porn. If there's any plot or if it's long enough porn, I like switchers. Being bi myself (but a woman, so I can't really comment on this sort of thing, BUT I'M A PERFECTIONIST so I do a lot of ... research), I can only say one thing.
Depending on the person you’re with, the mood you’re in, the time you need to get up the next day, and a billion and one other factors including whether or not there's a butterfly in China flapping its wings, you decide on if you want to take a giving or receiving role on an occasion by occasion type of thing. Of course, there are some people who go, I like giving, or, I like receiving. It depends on what you personally get out of an encounter.
But this is for girls. Guys have it way, way worse, mainly because there's so much baggage that our society attaches to them about being perceived as 'the woman'. You have no idea how long I agonised over the word choice for 'giving or receiving'. Reflex was to type active and passive, but that's incorrect and offensive for some and just the entire issue of what goes where for anal sex is just mind blowing.
Not for everyone, of course. Some people just go, 'I don't care what people think about me', or 'pfft, fuck no, it isn’t womanly', or, even, dare I say it, people that have come to terms with themselves and their homosexuality/bisexuality/etc. For example, Zack and Cloud. Zack is confident, flirty, and doesn't seem to mind what people think. However, he does come from a small, jungle community. Cloud likely grew up bullied, joined the army to be like his hero and is rather insure as a result of several things. However, fanon seems to say that he holds onto his 'precious people' with terrific strength, and that he's a stubborn son of a bitch.
Isolated communities are likely to have a massive stigma attached to homosexuality, because being gay, generally speaking, = no babies. No babies = everyone dies out/Not Good.
As for personality traits well ... for me, for basic!model!Zack and Cloud, Zack is far more likely to be at ease in the 'woman's position' than Cloud.
(As for Naruto ... pfft. Logic insists that homosexuality in the Naruto world is very, very frowned upon, if in the case of only gay monogamous relationships. There is a very, very high mortality rate coupled with isolated communities. They need babies and fast. For me, logic insists that Hinata is going to be recalled soon. The Hyuuga clan need her undamaged, and if there's a war on, they need babies to replace the people that are dying. As for flings, etc, I don't really think that anyone cares. Stress of the battlefield and all that. But serious relationships are highly likely to be hetro.)
And now I will go over here to me little corner and stop rambling.
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Depending on the person you’re with, the mood you’re in, the time you need to get up the next day, and a billion and one other factors including whether or not there's a butterfly in China flapping its wings, you decide on if you want to take a giving or receiving role on an occasion by occasion type of thing. Of course, there are some people who go, I like giving, or, I like receiving. It depends on what you personally get out of an encounter.
But this is for girls. Guys have it way, way worse, mainly because there's so much baggage that our society attaches to them about being perceived as 'the woman'. You have no idea how long I agonised over the word choice for 'giving or receiving'. Reflex was to type active and passive, but that's incorrect and offensive for some and just the entire issue of what goes where for anal sex is just mind blowing.
Not for everyone, of course. Some people just go, 'I don't care what people think about me', or 'pfft, fuck no, it isn’t womanly', or, even, dare I say it, people that have come to terms with themselves and their homosexuality/bisexuality/etc. For example, Zack and Cloud. Zack is confident, flirty, and doesn't seem to mind what people think. However, he does come from a small, jungle community. Cloud likely grew up bullied, joined the army to be like his hero and is rather insure as a result of several things. However, fanon seems to say that he holds onto his 'precious people' with terrific strength, and that he's a stubborn son of a bitch.
Isolated communities are likely to have a massive stigma attached to homosexuality, because being gay, generally speaking, = no babies. No babies = everyone dies out/Not Good.
As for personality traits well ... for me, for basic!model!Zack and Cloud, Zack is far more likely to be at ease in the 'woman's position' than Cloud.
(As for Naruto ... pfft. Logic insists that homosexuality in the Naruto world is very, very frowned upon, if in the case of only gay monogamous relationships. There is a very, very high mortality rate coupled with isolated communities. They need babies and fast. For me, logic insists that Hinata is going to be recalled soon. The Hyuuga clan need her undamaged, and if there's a war on, they need babies to replace the people that are dying. As for flings, etc, I don't really think that anyone cares. Stress of the battlefield and all that. But serious relationships are highly likely to be hetro.)
And now I will go over here to me little corner and stop rambling.
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Now.