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you can skip if you want, it's not that interesting, and neither uber-angsty nor uber-happy. Just stuff about a guy I know, that annoys the hell outta me.
These days i'm participating in what we call a "formation", thatis, training for a job. except that this one isn't for one specific job; rather, it's to ease us into an "adult" life. We're ten, twelve people (hard to say since half of them are skipping on a regular basis). There's for now two boys only (but two more are supposed to arrive tomorrow). I'm by far the oldest of the group, being 23 when most of them are between 17 and 19, and i'm also the only one to have gone as far as the university. Most of them are also muslims, which doesn't have any impact on me except in one case: Farid.
Farid is someone who has managed, despite never having met me before and not, so far, actively seeking to truly harm me, to make me utterly despise him. He somehow managed to go through the list of things that annoy me in people and show up with half these traits. IN ONE PERSON.
He is a stereotype of the gay man -- think love of shopping and clothes, gossip, and a slight lisp -- and yet is not only straight, but macho as well. He claims loudly and often to be sensitive, romantic and generous, and yet also vehemently refuses to let "his woman" even talk with another guy. He thinks the fact he was born with a penis entitles him to being listened to by every female in the group.
He talks all the time about his religion and why it rocks (which annoys me because there's a clear "YOUR religion sucks and you're all going to hell" undertone), and yet laughs as he says that he wouldn't get up to give HIS seat to an elderly woman in the bus, as if he's proud of it. And just ten minutes before he was all but writing poetry about how the Muslim faith prones tolerance and respect. (Which it does -- but he claims to embody these qualities and then goes and does something that shows he's only respectful of people in his family and tolerant only to people who share his beliefs.) HE'S IN FRANCE, and yet KEEPS TALKING IN ARAB, knowing fully well that only half of us will understand, and having a perfect grasp of the french language. He keeps swearing by allah, allah this, allah that -- I don't mind people being religious, but fuck! we know you are, fucker, stop showing us how pious you are. I'm sure Allah doesn't want His name called in vain any more than the Christian god does.
He's superstitious as fuck; claims that because his brother's wife convinced the guy to be a dick to his own family, that it makes her a witch -- that she enspelled him and is giving people the bad eye and stuff like that. I'm sorry but there's an easier explanation, and it's that she's good in bed and/or and that his brother is madly in love with her. Of course the brother will take his wife's side over his mother's; he doesn't have to live with his mother anymore, but he does live with his spouse. She doesn't need to be a witch. He believes insane people are possessed by djinnis, he thinks he was tempted by satan -- all his beliefs, and I respect his right to believe whatever the fuck he wants -- but I cannot respect his "WHAT I SAY IS ALLAH'S HONEST TRUTH" attitude, like there's NO other explanation possible and OF COURSE witches and djinnis exist. "What, you don't believe? not surprising, you're already going to hell for being an infidel anyway. But i'm big enough not to let it come between us." *insert fake smile here*
He claims to be shy, yet keeps making himself noticed and interrupting the teachers, because he just remembered something that he HAS to share just now, even if there's NO relevance to the subject being discussed, and has this annoying habit to start talking, and then stop and say "... I dunno, I think..." and he's talking and yet NOT SAYING ANYTHING. How can anyone babble so much words and get so little content through?
His laugh is false. He never looks at me in the eye. His humor is NOT FUNNY. He's childish. He's also a coward and a backstabber. He HAS to be right. He keeps coming to say hello when I made it clear that I don't wish to talk to him or even see him. I DON'T WANT THIS GUY TO KISS ME HELLO GODDAMNIT. But OF COURSE he's SO awesome that I had to be on the rag or something when I snapped at him -- of course now, all is forgotten, he's forgiven me because he's so cool and I can be one of his girl pals again. Uh, no?
He annoys the hell out of me. And yet, he's friends with Chadlia, who is funny, friendly and whom I actually like. And who is also coming with Sandra and me to eat tomorrow.
Guess who's coming with the three of us.
Farid apparently can't go home tomorrow at noon; i don't know he details, I didn't ask, because I don't care. Of course, Chadlia doesn't want to abandon him, but she can't eat with us often. I don't want to make her choose, because this girl has a gift : she can be friends with everyone in the group -- hell, she's the one who makes it a group.
I also don't want to eat with Farid tomorrow.
Chadlia asked me today, while Farid was sitting on her other side. I said, very calmly, that I understood her not wanting to abandon him, but that I didn't want to eat with him, so she could stay with him and we'd have lunch together another day, hat wasn't a problem. I knew that Sandra would agree with me, seeing as we mostly bonded over our common dislike of him.
He pretended not to have heard, and then asked Chadlia again. I WAS ON HER OTHER SIDE. I don't know why the FUCK he insisted, when he knows fully well that i said no -- as politely as I could, but I said no. Maybe (because Chadlia is physically imposing and has this kind of quiet strength that makes people listen to her) he thought that she would actually make the decision and we'd follow; he only asked her. Why come directly to us indeed, when he could get Chadlia to make us instead?
But WHY does he want to eat with us? He can eat with Chadlia, we said it was ok -- but NO, he wants to invite himself in! I have a feeling he cannot conceive of any girl that wouldn't swoon over him or something. Sandra told him point blank that she didn't like him. As for me, I even told him that I thought he was ridiculous, had a big mouth and a little dick, that he was annoying the hell out of me and that I didn't want to talk to him, now or ever, and i keep being sarcastic at him (and man but i can be cutting when i want to). Why does he keep insisting and pretending that we're actually pals when he perfectly knows that we can't stand him? I don't get it.
These days i'm participating in what we call a "formation", thatis, training for a job. except that this one isn't for one specific job; rather, it's to ease us into an "adult" life. We're ten, twelve people (hard to say since half of them are skipping on a regular basis). There's for now two boys only (but two more are supposed to arrive tomorrow). I'm by far the oldest of the group, being 23 when most of them are between 17 and 19, and i'm also the only one to have gone as far as the university. Most of them are also muslims, which doesn't have any impact on me except in one case: Farid.
Farid is someone who has managed, despite never having met me before and not, so far, actively seeking to truly harm me, to make me utterly despise him. He somehow managed to go through the list of things that annoy me in people and show up with half these traits. IN ONE PERSON.
He is a stereotype of the gay man -- think love of shopping and clothes, gossip, and a slight lisp -- and yet is not only straight, but macho as well. He claims loudly and often to be sensitive, romantic and generous, and yet also vehemently refuses to let "his woman" even talk with another guy. He thinks the fact he was born with a penis entitles him to being listened to by every female in the group.
He talks all the time about his religion and why it rocks (which annoys me because there's a clear "YOUR religion sucks and you're all going to hell" undertone), and yet laughs as he says that he wouldn't get up to give HIS seat to an elderly woman in the bus, as if he's proud of it. And just ten minutes before he was all but writing poetry about how the Muslim faith prones tolerance and respect. (Which it does -- but he claims to embody these qualities and then goes and does something that shows he's only respectful of people in his family and tolerant only to people who share his beliefs.) HE'S IN FRANCE, and yet KEEPS TALKING IN ARAB, knowing fully well that only half of us will understand, and having a perfect grasp of the french language. He keeps swearing by allah, allah this, allah that -- I don't mind people being religious, but fuck! we know you are, fucker, stop showing us how pious you are. I'm sure Allah doesn't want His name called in vain any more than the Christian god does.
He's superstitious as fuck; claims that because his brother's wife convinced the guy to be a dick to his own family, that it makes her a witch -- that she enspelled him and is giving people the bad eye and stuff like that. I'm sorry but there's an easier explanation, and it's that she's good in bed and/or and that his brother is madly in love with her. Of course the brother will take his wife's side over his mother's; he doesn't have to live with his mother anymore, but he does live with his spouse. She doesn't need to be a witch. He believes insane people are possessed by djinnis, he thinks he was tempted by satan -- all his beliefs, and I respect his right to believe whatever the fuck he wants -- but I cannot respect his "WHAT I SAY IS ALLAH'S HONEST TRUTH" attitude, like there's NO other explanation possible and OF COURSE witches and djinnis exist. "What, you don't believe? not surprising, you're already going to hell for being an infidel anyway. But i'm big enough not to let it come between us." *insert fake smile here*
He claims to be shy, yet keeps making himself noticed and interrupting the teachers, because he just remembered something that he HAS to share just now, even if there's NO relevance to the subject being discussed, and has this annoying habit to start talking, and then stop and say "... I dunno, I think..." and he's talking and yet NOT SAYING ANYTHING. How can anyone babble so much words and get so little content through?
His laugh is false. He never looks at me in the eye. His humor is NOT FUNNY. He's childish. He's also a coward and a backstabber. He HAS to be right. He keeps coming to say hello when I made it clear that I don't wish to talk to him or even see him. I DON'T WANT THIS GUY TO KISS ME HELLO GODDAMNIT. But OF COURSE he's SO awesome that I had to be on the rag or something when I snapped at him -- of course now, all is forgotten, he's forgiven me because he's so cool and I can be one of his girl pals again. Uh, no?
He annoys the hell out of me. And yet, he's friends with Chadlia, who is funny, friendly and whom I actually like. And who is also coming with Sandra and me to eat tomorrow.
Guess who's coming with the three of us.
Farid apparently can't go home tomorrow at noon; i don't know he details, I didn't ask, because I don't care. Of course, Chadlia doesn't want to abandon him, but she can't eat with us often. I don't want to make her choose, because this girl has a gift : she can be friends with everyone in the group -- hell, she's the one who makes it a group.
I also don't want to eat with Farid tomorrow.
Chadlia asked me today, while Farid was sitting on her other side. I said, very calmly, that I understood her not wanting to abandon him, but that I didn't want to eat with him, so she could stay with him and we'd have lunch together another day, hat wasn't a problem. I knew that Sandra would agree with me, seeing as we mostly bonded over our common dislike of him.
He pretended not to have heard, and then asked Chadlia again. I WAS ON HER OTHER SIDE. I don't know why the FUCK he insisted, when he knows fully well that i said no -- as politely as I could, but I said no. Maybe (because Chadlia is physically imposing and has this kind of quiet strength that makes people listen to her) he thought that she would actually make the decision and we'd follow; he only asked her. Why come directly to us indeed, when he could get Chadlia to make us instead?
But WHY does he want to eat with us? He can eat with Chadlia, we said it was ok -- but NO, he wants to invite himself in! I have a feeling he cannot conceive of any girl that wouldn't swoon over him or something. Sandra told him point blank that she didn't like him. As for me, I even told him that I thought he was ridiculous, had a big mouth and a little dick, that he was annoying the hell out of me and that I didn't want to talk to him, now or ever, and i keep being sarcastic at him (and man but i can be cutting when i want to). Why does he keep insisting and pretending that we're actually pals when he perfectly knows that we can't stand him? I don't get it.
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<3
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oh, by the way, i have to type something i wrote about heero-clone meeting Dachi. 9_9;;;; maybe i'll do it tomorrow... or another day... *laaazy*
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Seeing as they're the same god, I fully expect not. XP
>_< Oh man, I HATE people like that. Being a sociopathic asshole is NOT a virtue.
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and yeah! exactly. can't stand people like that, Like it's something to strut about, to be selfish to that point. >.
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-He's just shouting his dick off cos he feels threatened. *snuggles*
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Enfin, figh ma soeur wonderfolle, et pense au cianure dans la galette des rois.
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you should learn how to swear at him in Arabic =D
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dun wanna bother. hnn. *stomps around*
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Lui aussi tu veux qu'on s'en occupe?
Jo doit se debarasser d'un connard dans sa classe, on fait une action groupée ?
XD
FIGHTTTTTT!!!
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still. he needs a spork in the eye. accidently.
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friends? yuck. ahh, so long as they don't reproduce. <_<;;;
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You have my sympathy, dearest wifey. Hope you can manage to ignore him!
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(Anonymous) 2005-01-19 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)If you want to swear at him in Arabic, try answering "Khus Ummak"
and "Yaa Gawwaad" the next time he opens his mouth. That oughta shut him up. Sorry I can't think of any more, I'm not Arab.
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Btw, I was too busy to comment but I loved the Neji-and-bird story you were working on. I hadn't realized how much I wanted some decent Neji stuff till I read it.
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yeah, i feel much better. it's silly to let such an idiot affect me so much. ^^
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How long have you been in the fandom? Maybe I saw a date on an old drawing of yours or something. Huh. Wierd.
Anyhow... HELL but I know what you mean about stuffed guys. They never get a clue do they?! Though I'm just glad I haven't run into any of the dumb religious types like you have. ::winces:: I have less tolerance for them and I don't know why.
It's morons like him that leave comments on works trying to tell you how to draw your own art. ::stabs::
I hope you do evil things to him. >_>
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*loves on you*