Okay...this hits on one of my peeves, the whole "they're only 12, they don't have a sexuality yet!" bit. I'm sorry, but I had a sexuality at 12. I knew who I was attracted to. I knew what was massively messed up in my head, and how there were things that did not align with reality. AT TWELVE! It didn't take me until 18 to figure it out. And by the number of kids having sex (some with the obvious consequences) that I went to secondary school with, there's no doubt in my mind that sex at ages less than 18 is reality, and people just need to learn to deal with that simple fact of life.