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askerian ([personal profile] askerian) wrote2004-05-21 08:39 pm
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whoops.

okay, now i feel sorta bad. Looks like the flamer was really young. I should have guessed, really, what with the s-e-x thing. I got a polite but kind of angry mail back from a big sister/aunt type person.

Maybe I was wrong to mock, I should have explained instead, but the kid was wrong to wander in areas clearly labeled as adult. If you can't keep an eye on your brats, don't have them. <_< Anyway, that lady seemed quite reasonable, just protective of the kid, so I guess I can forgive. But I'm NOT going to password-protect my stuff just because some people prefer to put their kids in front of the computer than get them a babystitter. XP

[identity profile] clairwitch.livejournal.com 2004-05-21 01:39 pm (UTC)(link)
J'espère que tu lui as répondu de surveiller sa môme ai lieu d'emm***er son monde... -___- *phase de hainage de la société*. C'est un peu facile de vouloir redresser les torts après, et pis t'as tout à fait raison : le net n'est pas une baby sitter...

[identity profile] oysterverse.livejournal.com 2004-05-21 07:52 pm (UTC)(link)
It's, um, okay for me to laugh, right?

[identity profile] bloodyscary.livejournal.com 2004-05-22 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
Pas la peine de te prendre la tête avec ça, elle avait qu'a surveiller son mioche/soeur/frere et puis voila, non mais.
A quoi ça sert de mettre des avertissements si c'est pour pas les lire?

[identity profile] bloodyscary.livejournal.com 2004-05-22 04:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Et ben elle avait qu'a aps le alisser devant son ordi tout seul!
Sgreugneugneu.Elle sait lire elle je pense^^

[identity profile] bloodyscary.livejournal.com 2004-05-22 04:41 pm (UTC)(link)
vala, et comme ça , peut etre que sa tante/gd soeur/mere fera plus attention quand il sera devant son ordi^^

[identity profile] mookiegatto.livejournal.com 2004-05-22 06:46 am (UTC)(link)
You shouldn't feel bad. When someone sends an e-mail like that, they are inviting a retaliatory response. The whole "can't take the heat, stay outta the kitchen" thing.

Where was big sister/aunt type person when said youngster was reading things that were inappropriate in the first place?

It is not your responsibility to do more than provide a warning about the genre of work found on the site. I don't know any sites I've visited that don't have them...and in fact, I am really annoyed by the find the hidden link to enter the site - why should I, a "consenting adult" - have to play "keepaway" because there are immature, bored, minors with too much internet freedom roaming the information highway? (That's a whole other rant in itself...)

Sounds a bit like a bully who got bullied. Wah. Too bad. You dish it out, you'd better be ready to take it (up the ass, even).

Sorry. Just wanted to say you don't need to feel apologetic for your response, unless you feel that you overreacted by responding too quickly. NOT because of what protective-female-figure had to say to you.

(Anonymous) 2004-05-23 11:54 am (UTC)(link)
Mais au fait, normalement il n'y a pas un truc dans les paramètres d'internet explorer qui permettent de limiter l'accès à certaines zones ?
Si elle ne l'a pas fait, elle ne peut s'en prendre qu'à elle-même, au lieu de te demander de restreindre l'accès de ton site.

Question complètement hors du sujet, qui me trotte par la tête depuis un cetain moment...
Je voulais te demander, au sujet de Garou.
C'est fait exprès que Wuwu soit un tigre ?
Parce que je sais pas si tu sais mais dans la mythologie chinoise, le dragon est signe de masculinité, et le tigre est son opposé, c'est à dire signe de féminité (ils représentent tous deux une facette du yin et du yang). Quand je m'en suis rendue compte, j'étais pliée en deux...

(Anonymous) 2004-05-23 12:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Pourtant, il n'a aucun indice qui laissent supposer que Wuwu ait un côté féminin dans ta fic, c'est dommage...

(Anonymous) 2004-05-23 12:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Peut-être dans sa relation avec Heero ?...
pov' petit, il en a passé un sale moment (ou un bon ça dépend de quel côté tu te mets).
Ooups, je relis la dernière phrase, je la laisse comme ça ?
ok, mais sache que je n'y pensais pas dans ce "sens" là.

[identity profile] morgan-idril.livejournal.com 2004-06-06 01:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Ok, maybe a mature response would have been mature but some times things just hit a nerve. And I would have been snarling in the face of someone who did that to me. Thus speaks a lover of your stories and pics and a Mom. Yes, I'll admit to having kids and to also not having kiddie police protocol on the machine either. They go where they are not supposed to go they get busted, by me! I will find out. But as one runs in terror from yaoi/slash, poor baby, and the other just pats me on the head and shakes his head at his poor hentai mother I don't worry to much. I am glad that the aunt what-ever was protective but my question is why the kid got to your work in the first place. Didn't he/she get taught that when there is a warning to heed it? Don't like the idea leave it alone. Don't flame something you dislike and read anyway. Twits.

It isn't you job to babysit, your job for the website is to warn and allow the person visiting to make the Mature choice. To many people abdicate their parental responsibilities and let others take the blame instead of teaching their own. Feh. sorry you got me on a rant of mine.