why is the girl always a total virgin and the guy always a stud
Oh, no kidding. I mean, I can see it if you're writing smut and just wanted the kink of first time sex, but yeah, the whole girl being a virgin by default annoys me, too. ^^

I know! I'm never online for more than a couple of minutes at a time anymore. My 2 yr old is going through a 'I must take my clothes off all the time' phase, and I have to keep following him around to put them back on since he's not completely potty trained yet. I'm tired of cleaning up puddles. u.u