"You'd just have to stay very still and endure, and entrust yourself to the hope that he doesn't hate you enough to really mess you up."

...guhhh.

My women's studies professor says the reason we link sex and violence is because we've been brainwashed by the patriarchy. And, you know, she might be right, but that doesn't make it any less OH GOD HOT.

Which is to say, rock on, lady!